After meeting a girl or young man, there comes a time when you need to find common topics for conversation so that communication does not fade. Subjects such as politics, religion, morality should be avoided, as they are personal and can adversely affect mutual understanding. It is best to be neutral when speaking. For example, fashion, painting, art, travel, and of course music are great topics for communication. Music is the most optimal option for maintaining a conversation, since everyone is addicted to it to some extent: creating, playing or just listening.
Where to begin?
If you chose music as the topic of conversation, then you will not make a mistake. It affects every person to some extent. Since birth, we are surrounded by music: we hear it at home, on the street, in shops, parks and other public places. It accompanies our happy and sad moments in life.
If you start communication with this topic, then in the future there is an opportunity to move on to other topics, for example, style, fashion and worldview. The influence of melodies on a person is very great.
To keep the conversation going, start by knowing the other person’s musical preferences. Based on this, you can build further communication. In addition, very often the genre shows the state of mind of a person, his inner world, with the help of a melody you can learn about the mood of a girl or a young man.
The influence of music on relationships between people
Most significant events for a person are associated with a melody. That is why, in order to be remembered by the interlocutor, it is worth choosing “your” music, which will remind you of your friendship with this person. Hearing this song, you will immediately remember that communication, the first kiss, dance, funny situations and much more.
It is music that reinforces the positive emotions that are associated with this or that interlocutor. Therefore, it is so important to start communication with this topic. During quarrels, a familiar melody will remind a person of pleasant moments and tune him in the right way.
Recently, scientists conducted a study, on the basis of which it was found that those couples who often have music together are better understand each other. Experts recommend that to improve mutual understanding between friends or partners, carry out any activity accompanied by your favorite tunes.
Another study by scientists led to the conclusion that girls prefer guys who are fond of the following genres: rock, metal. But young people like those girls who prefer to listen to the classics.
Thus, having started communication with your interlocutor from the theme of music, you can learn a lot of new and interesting things about a person, understand his inner world and create common moments with the help of a familiar melody.